January 6th marks the end of a ban on same sex marriages in the State of Florida. Already there have been multiple licenses issued and ceremonies performed across the state. I want to say congratulations to all of the couples and families now allowed to be seen as "legal" in the eyes of the state. But there are some other things that need to be said.
1. You didn't win anything.
The decision to allow the marriages to take place and licenses to be issued was not won by any group or activism, it was just the failure of government to stand in the way any longer, in essence, they took the boot off your throat. It was the expiration of a law that is allowing this all to take place, for now. It is a highly contested issue and one that very well may come back to the courts and could be overturned.
2. You are still seeking State approval for your relationship.
The act of marriage should not be in the hands of the State as it is (my opinion). There should be no reason any state should be allowed to issue licenses or permissions for two or any amount of people to be in any sort of relationship as long as it is mutual and voluntary.
3. There are county court officials that have taken a religious stand against performing the ceremonies of same sex couples. This should not be seen as a total negative in the issue. Yes those people should be held accountable for their dereliction of duty but the positive is that a government official has stepped out of the way of marriage altogether, now if the rest would follow suit and step out of the issue completely we would be getting somewhere.
In closing I say Congratulations and good luck to you all.
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